I have approved thousands of members.  Sometimes it can be obvious that there has been a lot of pain from previous relationships.  Try and focus on your future and you will draw more postive people, events, moments and thoughts to yourself.

Pay attention to what kind of music you put into your mind.  When you are getting close to being ready to try again you will find that you will be projecting more positive energy and thoughts to those around you.

Here is a great song, but if every song that you listen to is just like this ---- then you might not really be ready to start dating.