I've asked for opinions on this before and only got 2 responses so, here goes again. I'm 47yo, widowed, been told I'm attractive and I have managed to keep a fair size 12 figure and I'm 5'8". I lost my husband almost 5 years ago and ever since a year or so after his death it seems I just can't get enough sex. This is rediculious, I've been on fourgood golly first dates and every one ends up in the bedroom. I'm not confussed sexualy but I don't understand why I want it so much. I can be walking in the mall and see someone and get all flushed, this is like puberty all over again. I don't want these men thinking I'm a **** or a whore because I'm not, but I do seem to be wanting it more than I ever imagined I could. My daughter thinks I should find a sex buddy for now to take care of things. Any of you girls ever go through a stage like this? Should I just enjoy it or what? Help me understand this please.