Would you ever go back to your ex? Ten points.?

[Byers_Gayle]

I have been broken up with my ex for about three months, and he recently told me he loves me again and i love him.However, he doesnt want to date cause he doesnt want a bad breakup again.Any advice on what to do?And would u ever go back with an ex? .*Btw. dont say move on, because i tried too and i just cant seem to.tenpints (:

[BeanGi]

well, if he doesnt want to date, then dont try to force him to. that will only push him further away. let him know that you respect his wishes, and if he ever changes his mind, maybe you will be there. (the more available you make yourself sound, the less appealing you will be) So dont appear desperate. the guys gotta realize that break ups happen.. they are a part of life. and I doubt hes planning on never going out again, so its really just a matter of time before he wisens up. I have gone back out with ex's in the past, no biggie.

[HarperA504]

if he doesnt want to date bcuz hes scared of a bad break up it looks like hes just teasing & playing with you..sorry. if he really loved you he wouldnt let anyhing get between you two being together.talk to other people. you can move on. i thought i couldnt.. i dated a guy for nine months & went out for 7 & a half months & i thought id never get over him but i did. it took me a year & 3 months but i got over it.you will too.would i go back with an ex? -if i made the mistake of leaving him & he wanted me & i loved him or missed him yes. BUTif he ever had the nerve to dump me he obiviously didnt value me enough at all.. soo no i wouldnt.