What is happening to me?

by **SniderIvory** » Tue Aug 21, 2007 1:44 am

I've asked for opinions on this before and only got 2 responses so, here goes again. I'm 47yo, widowed, been told I'm attractive and I have managed to keep a fair size 12 figure and I'm 5'8". I lost my husband almost 5 years ago and ever since a year or so after his death it seems I just can't get enough sex. This is rediculious, I've been on fourgood golly first dates and every one ends up in the bedroom. I'm not confussed sexualy but I don't understand why I want it so much. I can be walking in the mall and see someone and get all flushed, this is like puberty all over again. I don't want these men thinking I'm a **** or a whore because I'm not, but I do seem to be wanting it more than I ever imagined I could. My daughter thinks I should find a sex buddy for now to take care of things. Any of you girls ever go through a stage like this? Should I just enjoy it or what? Help me understand this please.

by **WilMich860** » Tue Aug 28, 2007 9:25 am

Well, that's a tough one. Although I guess you got married young so you didn't have much of a sex life before you did, so now you're (unconsciously) trying to make up for the time lost? Sorry if I'm way out of line here, but that's what it seems to me. Anyway, don't worry, just play it safe and have fun. You'll know when it's time to stop and have a more romantic approach. Good luck!

by **Watson_Colby** » Tue Sep 04, 2007 5:05 pm

There is a reason they say women hit their prime later than men. Hon, you are older now, you know what you want and sex is just better for us over 40 women. I was and am still enjoying it more than ever! Enjoy it but don't be a total skank. There are other ways of enjoying your sexuality,......... just ask the guys!!!