20 - 30yo Guys: Would you date a virgin?

by **GDanilo** » Tue Aug 21, 2007 9:21 am

Let's say you meet this really awesome girl. You have great conversations, you love to hang with her, and your life is better with her in it. In one if your "talks" she not only tells you she is a virgin but she is waiting for marriage. How do you feel? Do you continue to date her? Do you secretly respect and admire her more because she has waited and has even resisted your charm? Please be honest and detailed. Thanks

by **GrosDa598** » Sat Aug 25, 2007 1:12 am

I hit the dump button.In my honest opinion the concept of waiting until marriage is so unspeakably stupid, I could not respect the girl or take her seriously.Making a promise to be with someone forever, when you have not lived with with, or slept with them, is pretty dumb. To make such a big commitment, without knowing the facts, like if you are sexually compatible with them, is just crazy.So I am not going to take that kind of risk, and any girl who thinks this is a great idea is too stupid to be with.

by **FerMichal519** » Tue Aug 28, 2007 5:02 pm

Are there any virgins over 12 they can legally date?

by **HaneyJeromy** » Sat Sep 01, 2007 8:53 am

That's a great question. A while back I was dating a girl who was about 26 and after a while "it" came up in coversation. She told me she was a virgin... At that point it could have gone two ways.I could have stayed with her and waited for marriage.I could have broken it off because I didn't want to wait.I decided to break it off because I knew that I wasn't going to marry the girl anyway. I didn't want her to feel pressure to sleep with me because I knew that if she did, she'd probably regret it, since I knew we weren't going to last.So in a twisted way, I think I did the right thing. But I'm not sure.

by **HoSonia136** » Wed Sep 05, 2007 12:43 am

yeah.At 20 I actually plan on settling down (18 right now, and I just have fool around with girls now, no relationships) and finding that one woman. And if she happens to be a virgin, that's fine. I like a respectable a girl and probably would never date the ones I hook up with now (which are a slight step up from complete whores).I love classy girls that hold strong to their beliefs.